Tuesday, July 31, 2012

July wrap up...

I can't believe we are already going into August! I swear July 4th was just last weekend right?! July has been quite the eventful month for our little family.

Our little Booger has continued blossoming into a little girl right before our eyes... we have been working diligently and our prayers for patience have started paying off as she is learning each day who the head of our household is (shocker its not her!) and we have had less spankings in the past couple weeks(yes we spank, and no I'm not sorry... it works for us and it appears to be working for our lil' sassy pants too).
*She has developed a love for rock collecting (so fun to see what naturally intrigues their little minds- even if it is a lifeless rock).
*Her shoe fetish has only grown (I literally can't take her down the shoe aisle at Target without a diva tantrum).
*She loves to learn (much like her mama) and has most of her letter sounds pretty much down (thank you Letter Factory!), as well as all of her colors (and corresponding signs), and counting to 10 or from 12-20.
*She love love loves her coloring time with her daddy (mommy is not allowed near her easel when daddy is home).
*We are officially done with the "bink" (seriously took 2 weeks to get her to soothe herself to sleep....annnnnnd now we have to give her extra hugs and cuddles before bed- not a bad trade off since we only get this sweet cuddle bug stage for so long)
*She started swim lessons with a private instructor at her grampa's pool and seems to be enjoying it.
*Whether or not she realizes how her only-child world will change in a matter of months, she loves to give sweet kisses or hugs to her baby "seester" or baby "bru-der"

In other news, Ryan officially starts as a full-time Edison employee in 2 weeks! He has been a contractor for Edison since October, and we are so blessed and excited for this new position that seemed to come at the perfect time (coincidence? I think not!) as Edison is scaling back and contractors are going to be the first to be cut pretty soon. The initial pay-cut will be a small change to get used to, but the long term career and benefits far outweigh the monthly income! And the best part is that his job will allow me to continue my role at home raising the lil' ones and making our house a home (prayerfully we will be in our actual first home before this baby comes!)

4th of July at Grampa's (Captain Dave and company's annual dinnertime hangout before a busy night of calls)
Enjoying her future babysitters and some Grampa BBQ with Aunt Tay
Impromptu dinner date with Grampa and Gramps (great-grampa)
Enjoying goofball time with her Aunties



Impromptu lunch date at Nana's work... she loves airplanes!
Late night finishing touches for Katie's vintage sports themed shower (my 5th shower/party in 6 months!)

Bebba and Nugget keeping cool and busy watching Calliou during the shower
A month full of blooming personality

Hopefully August goes by a little slower than July... especially since it will be our last month to enjoy Auntie Bebba before she embarks on her indefinite journey out of the country!

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

the daily joys of motherhood...

little miss independent (and aspiring fashionista?)

Motherhood is a choice you make every day, to put someone else's happiness
and well-being ahead of your own, to teach the hard lessons,
to do the right thing even when you're not sure what the right thing is...
and to forgive yourself, over and over again,
for doing everything wrong.
~ Donna Ball, At Home on Lady Bug Farm

Over the course of the past couple months, my little lady has been a roller coaster of emotions... they call it "TWO" ... One moment she's my sweetheart who melts my heart with a random hug or kiss before going back to her playtime, or trying to help me in the garden, with "aundrey" (laundry), or vacuuming - the next moment she is likely trying to declare her independence or find her voice, only it comes out in the form of a tantrum, a screech, or a straight up "NO! MIIIIIIIIIINE!" (I loathe these words!). I am so grateful for the numerous sweet moments (and the ability to journal them here where I can look back and remind myself from time to time that she really is a sweetheart), but I am definitely ready to move past this strong-will-independence-seeking stage! 
On another note- breaking the pacifier habit during this stage of "TWO" is not ideal.
 I was planning on breaking her bink habit after the new year, but with constant illness and then a difficult 2 months on top of one reason or another putting it off (let's face it, the bink is an excellent mute plug and it is mostly used for bed time/nap time)... 
but alas the time came when i felt compelled (and ashamed that my two year old still used a pacifier) to "pull the plug" just after turning 2. I started cutting the tips off her binks one by one as they would surface (the kid is no dummy, she has a stash everywhere!) Then when we had one final blue bink left (the sacred last binky,) it was as if she knew that was the last one and refused to sleep without it (screaming/crying so loud that our neighbors could hear at night), and so we have had a hard time taking that final bink away at night for about 3 weeks. Fast forward to this past Saturday, after a late night of no sleep at Grampa's house, then a busy day playing with her Nana, the sacred final bink got lost at Nana's and the dreaded time came inadvertently.
For 6 solid hours (unbelievable until you hear it first hand that crying that long is even possible) our little girl screamed, cried, whimpered, whined, and fought sleep without her bink... about half way through I lost my sanity and shut myself in my room to join her in crying out of sheer frustration and complete exhausted angst. Somewhere around midnight we both fell asleep, and each bedtime/naptime since then has gotten a tiny bit better, but I imagine this power struggle and coping without a pacifier to go to sleep will last the rest of the week... Lesson learned- next kid WILL NOT have a pacifier by 2 (maybe even one... but we'll cross that bridge when we come to it).


Monday, July 9, 2012

park playdate party

cake pop ball birthday cake
  

In lieu of a big birthday party for her second birthday  (we weren't about to have our friends and fam drive out on memorial day for a two-year-old birthday party), we celebrated low-key with Jayme's immediate friends at our favorite park in Brea... maybe next year we'll do up legitimate party (I just can't help myself from party planning already!)

birthday girl having a blast on the big slides (priceless face)
 
happy Jax

all the mom's (and dad) were kept plenty busy

friends and cake pops (sad I only got pics of them eating...)

Two.



Dear Jayme,
Time has flown by in the blink of an eye… so much so that you have been officially two for almost two months! I can remember the day you were born and your 1st birthday as if they were only a few weeks ago, and now our sweet baby girl is officially two going on sixteen! Your daddy has affectionately named you “booger” and I like to refer to you as “pistol”… while you have your absolute sweetheart moments that melt our hearts, you have officially entered “that stage” that is not for the faint of heart… meltdowns in the parking lot, Target aisles, Costco, and anywhere you can get the attention to get what you want. when you want it. and how you want it. have given me and your daddy a reality check of what it means to have a two year old. I now completely understand the phrase “this is going to hurt me more than it will hurt you” when it comes to disciplining (whether it’s a swat on the bootie, a time out, or taking away a privilege that we both looked forward to)… You have always had a little sass to your personality, but now that you are much more vocal, your strong will (which is a good thing- your Nana had the same nature and was an incredible woman for it!) is taking shape each day.

 However, for every difficult moment, we have experienced just as many if not more of your sweetheart moments… your daddy and I especially love when you ask for a hug out of nowhere, give affectionate kisses and encourage family hugs and kisses after bedtime prayer (this is becoming our nightly ritual and it is one of my favorite parts of our daily routine), when you say “amo” (your version of te amo) after we tell you “I love you”, when you give sweet hugs and acknowledge “gentle” to your baby doll and friends, when you want to hold hands or “nuggle” (snuggle), when you get so excited to go see a friend or family member and that becomes your only focus until we get there, when you insist on cleaning up your little spills and messes (I’m afraid you are going to be OCD in that department like your uncle Alex), when you try to help mommy by carrying my purse in the store (even though it weighs nearly as much as you), when you enjoy quiet reading time, when you insist on watching Calliou for the 100th time and insist that mommy or daddy must sit with you, when you get excited about learning your signs or teaching mommy and daddy new signs you have learned from Alex and Leah (Signing Time- our lunch time show), when you don’t know what to say during prayer or grace so with your head bowed and hands folded you begin to sing “the a says ahhh…” and any other letter that comes to mind from the letter factory before you end with a solid “AMEN!”, when you help mommy or daddy water the grass and the garden each day (you actually do a good job and can do it unsupervised now!), when you count to 10 or sing your abc’s while mommy does pushups/Jayme lifts (at nearly 30lbs I think Jayme lifts may be coming to an end soon), when you are miss social butterfly and super well behaved on a shopping trip (you seem to do best at the grocery store and in the “big cart” at “Ostco”), when you act like a goofball because you know it will make someone laugh, and when you say/sign “potty!” when you get nervous, anxious, or are about to get into trouble (sometimes we believe you are a little too intelligent for your own good, but that potty act doesn’t work on mommy and daddy anymore ;-) 
18 months-24 months

Things your love (in no particular order):
Gampa’s house
Daddy snuggles
Your bitty baby
Your purse (or mommy’s purse)
Shoes! Shoes! Shoes! (especially your hideous red patent leather strappy deals… I think they look like orthotics, you think they’re “prrrrreeeettty”)
Bebba, Taycie, Alex
Nanna phone chats
Sitting shot gun in daddy’s truck (when he pulls in the garage)
“Ostco” (just like your mommy when it comes to this store)
Doggies and kitties
Chocolate (bound to happen between your daddy and my love for it)
Calliou -I’m embarrassed to say how much you actually watch it :-/
Daddy snuggles before bedtime
“Au-rey” and “Ri-rey” play dates
“Nessa” “eff” “Connai” and “ky-ky” (your family away from home)
Smelling mommy’s hair, skin, and giving love pats and kisses
Coloring (especially with daddy)
Headbands (still!)
Dressing yourself (although sometimes you look like a neglected child in the wardrobe you insist on putting together… but I figure it’s a stage you will soon grow out of ;-)
The beach (you are your Bebba’s Nugget!)
Yogurt, popcorn, grampa’s ribs, and “coffee” (you have to mimic mommy with your water in a coffee mug nearly every morning)
“swings-slide-friends” (when you want to go to the park you repeatedly say/sign this with so much enthusiasm)

Dislikes:
The word “no”
Target (more like you want to have your way every time we attempt to shop there, so we both end up in a bad mood by the time we leave)
Strangers and grown men you don’t know (gives you a near anxiety attack every time)
Loud noises that are unfamiliar (you cover your ears and sometimes duck between mommy or daddy’s legs or arms)

Accomplishments/Firsts:
Swimming/wading in the ocean (this is a Bebba and Nugget “thing”)
Tent Camping (you love it, just not when we have noisy neighbors)
Potty trained by 2! You go most days without an accident (overnight is a different story, but that’s due to a water habit you have like your mommy and daddy)
Riding your tricycle (still need help steering a little)
Your vocabulary is growing by leaps and bounds every day, and we now have to be careful of things you might repeat … “etto abulous!” (ghetto fabulous)
Originally we were just going to do basic signs to help you communicate before you could speak, and now you are up to somewhere over 30 signs (while not perfect, we know what your are saying- colors, play signs, people, etc.)
one year / two years

almost always wearing a smile (13-18 months)
We are so excited to see what experiences this year brings you and us as you continue to blossom out of toddler-hood and into a beautiful little girl (tear). I am personally excited to see how your nurturing skills with your baby doll transfer over to your new baby brother or sister come January ;-)



Love, Mommy & Daddy

a birthday for a bff

 
"Mae-me" and "Au-rey" are like peanut butter and jelly... and now that they are both TWO (and boy do they have their "two moments") us mommies have our hands full... we spent Sunday afternoon celebrating one of Jayme's BFF's and meeting her new little brother (slowly, but surely Jayme is getting more used to the idea of her mommy holding another baby that isn't her- JEALOUS much?!)

inseparable trouble.

the birthday girl

some daddy time
candid sweet moment of the proud papa and his new little man

Monday, July 2, 2012

May and June wrap up...

The past couple months have been jam-packed with lots of firsts (air show, ocean play, snow cone...) events (showers, birthdays, graduation of the last Smith kid), and family time (Sunday Fundays, Mother's Day Zoo trip, Belmont Shore visit, play-dates, etc)... so much so that I failed to even post about Jayme's 2nd birthday!!! Fail. So here is my attempt to play catchup with pictures... in no particular order here we go....

Mother's Day at the San Diego Zoo


highlights: bonding with each aunt and uncle and nana, NO accidents the ENTIRE day (yay for being potty trained by 2!), and an impromptu dinner at In N' Out (she ate her entire cheeseburger meal!)
Belmont with Bebba
never a dull moment in this fam

Chino Air Show with Nana


Play-date at "Mermies"
San Clemente camping... Turns out Nugget is like her Bebba when it comes to the ocean... no fear, and LOVES it! I'm sure she'll be surfing before 5 if Bebba has her way

soakin' up the sun and sand...

Last Smith kid to graduate and that makes three 49ers in the Smith Fam! Go Beach!

no shortage of attention for the Nugget
Baby Shower for the soon-to-be Pessa addition

Father's Day with Great Gramps

Baby Shower for our newest niece-to-be Erin Ann
more cake crafting for soon-to-be cousin Eliza's shower
play-dates with the Browns


Sunday Funday at Oak Glen (can't wait to go during apple picking season in a few weeks!)
 I had over 850 pictures to sum up 2 months worth of White Family happenings... but these are the highlights. It was overwhelming to sort through and look back on so many pictures, but that's what I get for procrastinating on updating ;-)  Now on to making July memories....