Ships Ahoy! It's a Boy... sprinkle shower

Its no secret that Ryan and I have a love for all things beachy and nautical, so when we found out we were having a boy, that was an easy nursery decision to make. In keeping with our love for all things nautical, my sister and her friend Ana took it upon themselves to put together a tailor made nautical shower in honor of our soon-to-be-newest family member... I feel so blessed to have friends (Calista created the invites and some burlap touches- including the banner, Missy and Erin pitched in for desserts and fruit, and Ana hand crafted half the decor with Stacey and Kaycie ended up being a huge help with generous hands in the clean up afterward) and family put on such a beautiful day for me and our little growing family. I really didn't want the production of another big shower for this second baby, especially since we have been blessed with oodles of great hand-me-downs... but Stacey wanted the opportunity to throw a little something and I loved that it was intimate and just perfect.

edible details

decorative details (all handmade with love)

showered with love

this one is for bebba.

the beautiful ladies

October wrap-up...

Well it happened. I blinked and October came and went! We had so much crammed into one month, if time keeps up like this, we'll be welcoming our 4th family member before we know it (less than 9 weeks left!)

I have been terrible at keeping up on the blog, so I will do most of the wrap-up with moments captured on camera, and as soon as time permits, I will write a couple new posts about some of the more important events and life happenings that deserve their own "space" ;-)

one of a couple trips to the "pumpkin catch" ... lovin the rides, her friend, and practicing being a big sis with Waylon

first time at Silverado Days with her BFF... and proving to her daddy why we will need a double stroller

celebrating a healthy and happy  97 years and  with gramps

since mommy is no longer able to enjoy rides and being a kid, daddy spent a good part of October entertaining his lil girl

Ryan's cousin Steph's wedding was quite possibly one of the simplest, most beautiful weddings (hello pinterest) we'd been to! Complete with TK's burger truck and a bluegrass band in her parents backyard!

Celebrating the soon-to-be-bride and beautiful friend Yvonne at her "cougar no more" shower

yvonne's wedding.... and a mega happy baby

The second most fabulous wedding we have ever attended (and one of the most joyous celebrations I've ever been witness to) in one month... Straight out of a magazine fabulousness, and intimate with only those closest to the bride and groom to share in their joy and happily ever after journey

October family time...

I said I would post more now that Bebba has left the country (my lame attempt at making her homesick), but clearly that idea hasn't panned out the way I originally planned... truth is we've been mega busy over here, not necessarily physically out and about busy- but planning out our immediate future kind of busy. Last week marked the start of the third trimester, and it was as if overnight my body reminded me "hey, you're pregnant, take it easy would ya?!" In other news, I'm pretty sure Jayme is beginning to understand that the baby growing in mommy's belly means that her world is about to change (hopefully for the better)... I just hope she takes to her baby brother better than I did when Becca was born (I was about the same age as Jayme when Becca was born and I tried to pack up her belongings and ship this new person off... clearly I preferred being an only child at the time- now I wish I could pack her up and bring her home to be here as our family embarks on new beginnings).
In between house hunting (FINALLY and officially after over a year of thinking we were ready!), doctor visits, and planning for baby boy to arrive in less than 3 months, we have had some sweet moments shared as a family of three. We are beyond blessed that Ryan secured a full time position with Edison which includes RDO's (every other Friday off!)- meaning one extra day to spend as a family getting out of the house, orrrrr a day for this mommy to run errands solo (never thought I'd see the day when grocery shopping without a toddler would be the highlight of my week!).

Irvine Park Pumpkin Patch on Daddy's day off

I think we might have that child who asks for a pony at every Christmas/birthday... Nugget absolutely loved her ride on Echo (she wanted to keep her)

soakin' up her daddy time

typical two-year-old super excited about all the pumpkins... crazy to see how much she has grown since last year in similar pictures!

family train ride... we are gonna have to work on the self portraits when the next lil' guy comes.

 This last weekend we went down to Murrieta for a birthday party... probably the highlight of Nugget's week since she seems to be obsessed with all things birthday these days (no one warned me of a birthday stage- the song, cake, presents, games... obsessed. with. it. all. )

patiently waiting for her cupcake while we sing to Juliana... and then the moment of pure bliss...

friends since their first year... just like their mommies

In other news, next week holds some kinda big "stuff"... stay tuned ;-)

Knotts Berry Farm ...

Free tickets + school back in session + weather under 90 degrees = perfect time to take trouble the girls to Knotts for their first Camp Snoopy experience!

I think we (the mommies) were more drenched in sweat from our anxiety of the girls being big enough to ride on their first ride (the airplanes- which only supply a lap belt to secure the child in the flying seat!) than we were from the muggy, semi-rainy weather! They were thrilled as we placed them in their seats, buckled them in (getting reassurance from the ride manager that in the two years she has been there, not a single kid has tried the Houdini act during the ride), and took our place behind the parent gate.Their brief moment of panic, as we left them strapped in by themselves, quickly turned to excitement as the ride took off... and that's when our excitement turned to anxious panic that our two-year-olds would be the first to climb out of the simple lap strap! So of course I did the only think I knew... mamarazzi moment and turn on the video record!

Tall enough to ride their first ride alone!

exploring Camp Snoopy, testing out EVERY red bench we passed, the priceless thrill of the School Bus ride going around, and excited for their first carousel ride

the simple joy through a child's experience

trying to get a picture of the girls in front of something that says Knotts... instead we got 5 minutes of waterfall play

more exploring, relaxing in the air conditioned restaurant, dancing at Lucywood, and retiring to their  Bumbo chairs when we got home

Reasons we will probably get a season pass soon-
* Its 5 minutes from the Pessa house- so even if we only go for 30 minutes its not a crazy drive and parking is fairly easy
* Its WAYYYYY cheaper than Disneyland (and the girls don't know the Disney experience yet, so won't realize what they are missing just yet)
* Its an inexpensive way to treat them to a day of getting worn out on rides and activities that are perfect for their age/size... and not to mention the exercise us mommies get chasing them around :)

asa lama lakum

We kicked off the beautiful holiday weekend with playtime and a lunch date in Seal Beach with a very sick Bebba on Friday. We had planned on heading to her Bon Voyage get-together at my dad's on Sunday, but after an urgent phone call from Stace who wanted someone to be with "Becca who looked like she was dying on the floor" while she left for a couple hours, Ryan and I packed up and headed to Riverside on Saturday instead. My mom took Becca to urgent care, where they treated her for severe dehydration and complications from her kidney infection, while I whipped up some homemade chicken noodle soup (labor of love making soup over a hot stove in 105 degree weather!) and get-well green juice (and coconut water to replenish her)... After several hours at urgent care, we were able to drop off the care package at my mom's and decided it was too hot to eat the rest of the soup, so Ryan, my dad, Jayme and I headed out for Mexican food (apparently Ryan had a sympathy craving and needed Mexican food!)
Sunday morning was a quiet family morning as Ryan, Jayme and I enjoyed church together before picking up a seemingly revived (but still sick) Bebba- apparently our Nonnie's "caffine-cures-all" cup of coffee helped alleviate Bebba's 3 day strong migraine enough that she was able to liven up a bit for her Bon Voyage gathering that afternoon. As much as we all tried to avoid the obvious good-bye and just enjoy the sunshine, pool, and BBQ... the tears started for her friends Sunday evening. She kept assuring them its not "goodbye," its just "see you later" (like possibly a year or more kinda later)...

Then came Monday. I am pretty sure God had His hand in Jayme acting a complete pistol to make it easier for Bebba to say goodbye to her prissy-pants-pistol of a Nugget (who clearly has the ignorance of a child and had no idea that saying good bye to her Bebba was more indefinite than "see you in 2 days" or "talk to you on the phone tomorrow" or "beach with Bebba tomorrow, okay?" ) As much as I am super excited to see what God has planned for her travel adventures south of the border, the part that makes me sad is to know that we won't be getting a random daily phone call from Bebba to talk to Nugget... or an impromptu family dinner night... or regular Laguna sugaring trips... or when Nugget just wants Bebba, she will be hundreds of miles away and when my sweet girl hands me the phone to call her Bebba, I have to tell her we can't call Bebba. I guess my sadness lies in not being able to see my little girl continue her special bond she shares with her Bebba... and knowing I have to pretend like its not a big deal that she won't be around for a long while. I know the holidays are going to be even harder, especially now that Jayme is becoming so aware of everyday, and the idea of a tomorrow or a yesterday, and her Bebba's absence at major milestones will be tremendously missed: the first Santa Claus experience- now that she's sorta old enough to enjoy the nostalgia that goes with Christmas; the birth of her little brother; (hopefully/prayerfully) moving into our first house... I am sure there will be more... and I know it is selfish to want her to stay, but she has been such a big part of our small family in the past two years as we have endured one hurdle after another, it just feels like a void we will have to cope with and pray she finds what joy/purpose she is searching for on her journey in Baja and Mexico.

No more sappy sadness... on to the highlights of her final weekend at home....

Happy Birthday Bebba!!!

"Don't mind if I high-jack your birthday balloons"

the fam

spontaneity, two-ude, and our happy place...

After a crazy busy week (somehow having one car made it seem twice as busy, being that Jayme and I were in the car at least 5 hours a day 3 times last week), Ryan and Jayme came with me to my appointment in Laguna so that we could spend his Friday off as a family by the beach... we took our lil' beach lover to Balboa for some Ruby's on the pier and play time (which she ended up ready for a nap before we could hit the playground or sand). The absolutely gorgeous weather got us thinking and talking on our drive home about when we should get up to Morro Bay with Jayme before the baby comes... when we got home (to a neglected disaster that had accumulated over the busy week of being out and about), we started plugging in dates for a hotel room and attempting to plan the perfect time to go (because this is what complete type A planners do), Ryan asked if I thought it would be crazy to just go up this weekend- if it's not already too late to get a room at our usual hotel- trying to channel my sister's care-free "live in the moment" spontaneous attitude (even though it is soooooo against my nature- I thought I could fake it just this once) I went along with his "crazy suggestion"... after calling the hotel (it was already 6pm and we would have at least a 4-5 hour drive), I took a leap of faith and booked an non-refundable room for the weekend! We literally packed our bags, Jayme, and some food for the road, gassed up and were on the freeway by 7- leaving behind a tornado of laundry, dishes, toys, and complete clutter to come back to- but hey! we were living on the high of our spontaneous road trip and couldn't wait to experience our favorite little get-away spot one last time before we welcome the next little nugget.

I gotta say, despite some major two-ude (our new label for our princess pistol's attitude spurts), Jayme seemed to enjoy getting away with her Daddy and Mommy as much as we did!

Miscellaneous memories from our trip:
- Jayme's excitement over eating a PB & honey sandwich for dinner AND in the car
- The nice officer who was gracious enough to flash us and give a "slow down" warning with his arm gesture instead of pulling us over (for the record we were only going 80 on a complete open stretch of highway)
- Making it to the hotel right at 11 (4 hours on a Friday night is AWESOME timing!)
- Realizing that we were gonna need a sedative for our hyped up two-year-old if we were going to get her to sleep in the hotel room the second night
- Making the drive up to the Hearst Castle, only to have Jayme fall asleep 5 minutes before we got there... so we turned around and just enjoyed the beautiful drive back
- Finding new (to us) hidden gems along the coast and planning to revisit for our 10 year anniversary (without kids)- hidden beaches, kayaking, and horseback riding to name a few...
- Realizing my pregnant body no longer agrees with walking 2-3 miles in a day
- Seeing the pure joy in Jayme's little face as she took in the sights, smells, and sounds that surround Morro Bay and the drive
- Realizing our child does not share our love for clam chowder or fish & chips
- Enjoying the bond between father and daughter
-  Jayme's impromptu swim in the ocean (note- always bring a towel or change of clothes even if you don't plan on getting wet)
- swing.slide.friends. lucky little girl was able to enjoy some much needed play time on the most awesome playgrounds (mainly the view was awesome)
- Princess Pistol's need to have 2 purses at all times, and the meltdown that occurred if we dared to zip them up every time
- Ryan's new rhyme about Jayme: "She wants what she wants the way she wants it... we don't ask why, we just do or die (of embarrassment from her meltdown)"
- Feeding the sea lions
- Craving a cinnamon roll and forgetting to get one before we left

- Elderly people running over our only sippy cup before a long drive home... then seeing those same elderly people completely lost at lunch (sitting at different tables trying to figure out where the other spouse was)
- Taking the scenic drive home and realizing we should have never left such amazing weather... it was miserable hot and humid when we got home
- The beautiful memories made and spending an entire weekend without a plan!

never mind that the water was freezing, "she wants what she wants, when and how she wants it"... even if that means frolicking in the ocean in all of her clothes. At least she slept well that night ;-)

probably the last family trip as a family of only 3

swing.slide.friends.

bonding time... priceless moments that make my mommy heart melt

pure happiness and energy being released (we realized she was confined to a car seat, a stroller, or her daddy's arms/shoulders 90% of the time, so we finally let her loose ;-)

sitting in the car taking in the gorgeous surroundings instead of the Hearst Castle as our lil princess snores in the back seat

hidden gem- we definitely want to go back and kayak here!

another hidden gem to revisit

this might just be one of my favorite photos of her... not the greatest photo quality, but the moment surrounding this picture is one of those "pictures worth a thousand words" and beautiful memories being made

mommy loving up on her sweet girl

Ryan catching a candid moment of his girls taking in the beautiful surroundings

Bebba, Beach, and Bonding time...

We planned one last Bebba date before she leaves the country indefinitely... and although we did not accomplish most of our original plans, it was one of my favorite days- less of a "something so extravagant happened", more of a "simple little moments to be cherished" kinda day.
We had planned to rendezvous in Laguna for our regular sugaring appointment, followed by fulfilling my bucket list item of paddle-boarding, then lunch.... but courtesy of a kidney infection, Bebba was in no way, shape or form able to do any of our original plans (turns out paddle-boarding while pregnant is not advised anyway)... however, we made the most of the most beautiful beach weather and improvised by meeting Bebba in Seal Beach (after her doctor appt). She met us at the playground- where I felt the need to continually mention little statements such as, "man, that kidney infection looks really miserable!" or "too bad you have a kidney infection, Nugget would have loved her auntie to play on the swings/slide with her!" for other concerned looking mothers to overhear as my sister lay slumped over on the sand looking quite ill... We followed up a brief playtime with lunch at Taco Surf with Becca's old boss (who treated us ladies to lunch!), after we parted ways (Bebba was in complete agony at this point, and a complete trooper for trying to keep up with her last Nugget date), Jayme and I re-parked the car and headed down the pier to Ruby's for an impromptu mommy and me shake date and to look out over the ocean where she was in awe of everything from the fishermen, to the boats, to the shoreline, to the seagulls, to the seagull poop on the railings- disgusting! (she is obsessed with the beach and ocean- every day she begs "beach tomorrow, okay?") After 3 sips of her oreo shake, she decided she was over the idea of ice cream through a straw and had me toss it out (she is so not normal!). We headed back to the car and lucky for me she passed out before I even put the car in drive... I made an impromptu trip to Target followed by another hour and a half sitting in Labor Day weekend traffic as we headed to pick up Ryan at work- this lucky mom had a sleeping little girl the entire time!

I found similar pictures of her in the same swing at 4 months, the swing by our house at 16 months, and this week's picture at 28 months... crazy how time goes so fast

one last play-date with her  sick Bebba

I wish we could go to this park every week! She is in absolute heaven here...

Impromptu Ruby's date with mommy

my little ham was posing for anyone who walked by (hilarious, then ridiculous, then embarrassing) so of course I had to include some of these ;-)

I am going to make every effort to enjoy a few more of these impromptu dates with my little girl before her little brother arrives... she melts my heart, especially when I see the pure joy radiating from her little face.

summertime and a social life...

We have survived almost three weeks with one family car (although it has been super difficult and a major adjustment at times)! The biggest struggle has been our feeling of being cooped up inside without going crazy or losing our patience for a week straight... the weather has been too gosh-darn hot to even go for a walk to the park, and not that we could have anyway since our little bug caught a little bug and was snot-nosed, coughing and congested for a week (how little ones can catch a bad cold in the middle of 100 degree summer heat is beyond me!) However, this past week was much better as we were able to get out of the house more... We even had a couple play dates, and on Ryan's first Friday off we trekked down to the San Diego Zoo with Auntie Bebba before she leaves the country on her Tour De Suenos. Here are our highlights from the past week....

play date with her partner in crime- Audrey

(I failed my job of mamarazi on our play date at Riley's)... sugared up mess!

One last Zoo trip with her Auntie Bebba

Monkeying around with Bebba... our first zoo trip where the animals (monkeys especially) weren't lethargic and Jayme got a dose of excitement as one monkey came up to the glass to flirt with her

Nugget enjoyed soaking up some snuggle time and bonding time with her Bebba and Daddy, as well as meeting her cousins  (3rd cousin?) Chole and Bryce for the first time

After a full day at the zoo, we had dinner and a nice visit with Tia Lupe and cousin Bill (who Jayme called Grampa-pa) who were the most generous hosts and we can't wait to visit again! (Most of our time was spent watching all the excitement- including seeing the British Airways jumbo jet land at the airport- from their amazing view)

 

Saturday and Sunday were spent swimming, baking, and loving up on her family at Grampa's house

loving up on her baby "bruder" growing in mommy's tummy (20 weeks)... nevermind my aimless hands in the one pic ;-)